See this time apart from your SP as a gift to become the best version of yourself that you possibly can be. You can literally manifest ANYTHING, but your main concern is your SP? Find multiple things to manifest and multiple things to enjoy to make your life the best you can possibly make it.
Become the type of person you would like to fall in love with
Discover your passions, find new hobbies, reconnect with old friends, learn a language, research niche things that excite your mind. Save up for a vacation, read books, volunteer at an animal sanctuary, get a pet, go on a bike ride, start working out, meditate, clean, start gardening, start crafting, get into a new show. Literally anything which will add joy and value to your life and make you happy. Because happiness does not start with your SP, it starts with you. Joy and fulfilment does not start with your SP, it will start with you.
Love YOURSELF like a living God.
Meditate on Perfection
I read about how in ancient Egypt people would enter a pyramid and be healed by it. The person would be completely completely by perfectly cut blocks of stones. These perfect blocks surrounded the individual. As the individual focused and gazed upon the perfect stone blocks, every other idea of imperfection started to dissipate as the idea of perfection started to seep and eventually dominate the individual’s consciousness.
You might believe this or you might not. The historical accuracy of this isn’t the point. The point is that this is exactly what Neville talked about. To become so absolutely absorbed by a beautiful ideal that it becomes your dominant state.
Practical advice: Every day, every second, hold the perfect version of you in your mind. Don’t try to manifest it or force a feeling out of it. Just observe it’s perfection and let it overtake you. Remember, it’s not power or force that accomplishes a change in this world. It’s only when we understand our inability to change circumstances, give up on trying to control the outside, that we can only choose what we focus on and identify with, that we can truly understand how this all really works and make a difference. An assumption requires no force, and an assumption is determined by where you focus your attention.
“The secret of thinking from the end is to enjoy being it” -The Power Of Awareness
“Don’t try, just experience it.” -Edward Art
So just observe you perfect ideal, and gradually allow yourself to go deeper and deeper, and start to identify yourself with that ideal little by little. The problem is that we try to change our state abruptly, with force. Changing a state is like trying to get close to frightened kitten. It must be done little by little, and with no abrupt movement that may scare the cat away.
I’m writing this as a reminder to myself as I keep applying what I’ve been learning, and I share it with you in hope that it may be helpful to someone else. I’m no expert (yet). I’m just talking from my experience.
Have a blessed life.
Reality is basically lazy. It’ll take your ideas.
Reality ends up using the ideas you give it. It isn’t creative, you are. It steals your stuff.
It’s like a stand up comic that steals jokes, lol. It will take the jokes it hears other comedians make because it’s easier. It may not even know it stole the joke, but it was planted.
When you make a clear end, mentally, it’s just way more likely for it to happen. You are reality’s source material.
Reality is like someone who doesn’t know which restaurant to go to. When someone offers a suggestion with confidence and joy it makes the decision easy.
So imagining the clear, specific end and feeling the state of the end, makes it easy for the lazy reality to make it so.
Nothing comes from without; all things come from within – from the subconscious – Neville Goddard
Neville Goddess Advice
Your world is a perfect reflection of you, and that includes your desires. Your desires reflect you. When you improve your lens, you see your desires differently, and they often change. The beauty of it all is you are free to move at your own pace and make your own choices. Your world and your life will continue to reflect back to you the contents of your mind – perfectly. If you operate from that assumption, anything “wrong” in your world isn’t from random chance. It’s there reflecting a belief you hold.
The way I approached this year was to just try to change all my beliefs into what I wanted them to be. There were surprising, seemingly unrelated outer effects from specific mental changes that I’d never made connections between that made me a 100% knower (not believer) in this concept of your world as a reflection. When I changed my belief that I was an object subject to others’ approval, a romantic interest in my life who had been noncommittal suddenly wanted to commit. I had no conscious awareness that that belief was causing that outer issue. But it was, through ME. My energy, my words, my choices, my actions.
I also caught a belief that was just below the surface – that no good partners were left out there for me to find (even though on a creation level, I had already said “it’s done.”) When I caught that belief and reprogrammed it – by simply realizing rationally that it’s not true which is my way, and may not be yours – the person I was looking for appeared the next day. And had been there for some time, invisible to me in the right way until my belief changed.
And:
I started with assuming that every belief I had was meaningless/false and everything else came from that. If I create my experience, and I do that through my beliefs, and I don’t want a painful experience, then everything painful I’m experiencing comes from a belief I’m holding that is false/changeable. Something like that, haha.
Write a New Story
For reference by this point, we had not spoken or been in contact for 6 months and he had literally told me to never contact him again. So, this is what I did:
I decided to take every negative thought about him, our relationship, and the argument we had, and bin it. From this point onwards I would never repeat the old story again, like it had never happened. Revise it if you have too. That’s what I did, I revised the evening we had the argument, into a lovely romantic date and things were left in a good way, with my SP telling me he loved me and will see me soon.
I also took my SP off the pedestal, he’s just a normal person, this is my life, I am the GOD of my reality. So, in my head I decided on a new story in which I was the most important person, and my SP was head over heels in love with me.
I wrote down a list of affirmations about me, how I was confident, attractive, I can get any man I want, and I deserve this amazing relationship. About him, how I wanted to recreate him in my reality, loving, caring, attentive and only attracted to me. Then about the relationship, we are so in love and in a happy committed relationship. I kept the affirmations short and easy to remember, so I could repeat them whenever I needed too.
A strict mental diet is what worked for me, I hardly ever visualised, but when I repeated my affirmations, images of us walking down the street hand in hand would pop into my mind naturally, but if they didn’t that was ok, I didn’t force anything. Every time a negative thought came to my mind, I said NO and repeated my affirmations, until I felt a swift into a positive place. I did this continuously until the negative thoughts were completely gone. It didn’t take long. Another thing, I added to my routine was, I would repeat my affirmations to myself every night until I fell asleep.
During this time, I must stress you have to ignore your current reality and what’s happening in the 3D world. Completely live like you’re in this amazing relationship with your SP. The affirmations will make it easier to stay in that place. Don’t react to anything that is opposing your desire, and don’t wait around for calls or messages. I would just look at my phone and say why is he always calling and messaging me. Enjoy life and do things that you’d do if you already had this person in your life. Would you be googling how to get my ex back etc if you had them NO, so stop doing that. You know how to manifest, so go ahead and practice it. You can’t learn forever and there are no short cuts to this, you have to put in the work and test the law for yourself. Even Neville Goddard stressed the importance of testing the law and see it work for yourself.
The final and most important thing is PERSIST in the new story, do not give up. Don’t look for signs or feel like you have to contact them. Keep affirming until this new story feels more real than the old. Before you know it, the 3D world will catch up with your imagination. When you least expect it, your SP will be back with you. They have no choice but to conform to your assumptions of them, because everyone is you pushed out. If you believe they love you, miss you and only want you, they have to appear that way in your reality. Remember there is no one to change but self – Neville Goddard. You can’t change your SP in the 3D world without changing them in your thoughts and imagination first, change the old story you’re telling yourself about them. All you must do is dedicate the time and effort to control your mind.
This may sound harsh, but you have to be brutally honest with yourself. Some people say they are on a strict mental diet but are only positive when they’re affirming and then allow their mind to run wild rest of the time. When you’re on a strict mental diet, you should take control of every thought 24/7. It will get easier the more you do it.
As for my SP he contacted me 3 weeks into my mental diet, apologising and telling me how he’d missed me and wanted to see me. We’re now in a loving committed relationship, he is the best partner ever because I have created him that way. Everything I had been affirming to myself came true. Even now when he does things that annoy me, I don’t argue with him, I just change it in my mind. Once you adjust your mindset, your whole world will change.
The way I look at it is, it’s your life you write the script. Your SP is only an extra in your film, you’re the lead, so you call the shots. You can have this too, just believe in yourself and your relationship and take control of your mind. Best of luck everyone.
All Is Imagination
Neville Goddard:
My experience revealed to me that I am supreme within the circle of my own state of consciousness and that it is the state with which I am identified that determines what I experience. Therefore it should be shared with all, that imagining creates reality, for to know this is to become free from the world’s greatest tyranny, the belief in a second cause. Blessed are they whose imagination has been so purged of the beliefs in second causes they know that imagination is all, and all is imagination. We, by a series of mental transformations, become aware of increasing portions of that which already is, and by matching our own mental activity to that portion of creation which we desire to experience, we activate it, resurrect it, and give it life.
Go Into God Mode & Live the Dream There
Self Concept. I’m realizing more and more that it’s all about self concept. How you view yourself is what shapes your reality. So imagine being this version of yourself that you want to be. Feel yourself as this version. Act it out in your imagination. Who are you? Who do you wish to be. Live in that mindset of the self you desire to be. Don’t fight who you are. It’s like boxing with shadows. Just choose to be who you want to be in the imagination and leave 3D alone. 3D is all shadows of the past and so often we choose to chase them, box with them, be frightened of them. I catch myself doing it and it’s insane. Instead, go into godmode, into imagination and live the dream there. Then the shadows in 3D change to that.
I’ve remade myself more times than I can count and it always was in my imagination where I began to see myself differently first. Then it became the 3D shadow. And your goal is how I live now and I have lived that way generally quite content/happy about it but I used to want a guy in my life so much. I used to feel lonely. I used to dread the idea of being alone. And like you at times I would be with someone and be like OMG so much stress!
Lately I’m playing around with a guy in my imagination again for fun. I’m having a wonderful relationship and loving it. I think I just felt like I did the single thing for so long that a change became desirable when someone caught my attention after years of that never happening. I took it as a sign that maybe this meant I’m feeling more open again to such a thing whereas for many, many years I was not interested in it at all.
But it is all about self concept. Who are you in your imagination? Who are you in your thoughts? I have seen myself in some very negative ways in the past and those came to be my 3D shadows. Over time I came to see myself better and better, tweaking some traits, adding others. Creating some new truths while letting old ones fade away. You get to be whomever you want! It’s your imagination. Make it a good one that you enjoy and so shall you become that in your 3D shadowland.
Turn Your Attention Away / Switch the Channel
“Just as a branch has no life except it be rooted in the vine, so likewise things have no life except you be conscious of them. Just as a branch withers and dies if the sap of the vine ceases to flow towards it, so do things in your world pass away if you take your attention from them, because your attention is as the sap of life that keeps alive and sustains the things of your world.”
“To dissolve a problem that now seems so real to you all that you do is remove your attention from it”
“If you are dissatisfied with your present expression in life the only way to change it, is to take your attention away form that which seems so real to you and rise in consciousness to that which you desire to be.”
Here are some of the quotes from Neville’s book, At Your Command.
In his books, Neville talks about dropping the problem from the awareness in order to get rid of it. But what does he mean by that?
I understand that he means shift your attention from the problem to the wish fulfilled but how do you completely drop the stress/worry of it from your mind?
For eg, if person A needs money but they don’t have a job yet, while they’re pretending to be rich and live in the wish fulfilled, how do they stop worrying about the lack of money/job completely?
Another example – if person B wants to get rid of a 3p, how do they completely drop the 3P from the awareness or stop giving them attention? Do they stop acknowledging the 3P or do they pretend as though the 3P doesn’t exist?
Reply 1:
1 ) Acknowledge that you are the creator of your reality. You can only drop what you hold. You can only allow what you believe to be possible. State your desires.
2) Rest in knowing, that life itself is now tending to it. Cope with life. Visit friends.
3 ) Find appreciation in where you are and what you do. There will always be a 3d that you want to be changed and there will always be some kind of resistance in life. That is okay. By adding appreciation, or any other kind of awareness that is uplifting ( acceptance), you dilute the strong unwanted. Being okay with where you are is your job.
Put your mind off. Literally. Put it off. Let it rest somewhere in the corner while you take a good shower. Eat a nice meal and hang out with friends. You are not your mind. Practice staying with ease in life. Stop watching news, stop watching the cash in your bank account.
Find playful ways of spending 15 minutes a day in refocusing your energies. This again does not mean you should expect everything to flip at once, nor would that be a fun ride. Watch it gradually unfold. If you feel not good its okay. accept that too. feelings of joy will gradually unfold. it will become more . Here and there, sparks of the focused energy will squirt out in 3d way before the full fledged manifestation. Feel the anticipation.
Now, go back to step 1) and rehearse each step as you go along in life. Watch what happens. Best stick with one Goal though, as you make yourself accountable and its easier to manifest that way. you see success easier.
Reply 2:
Let’s bring things down a dimension. Your vacation home is all yours. You’ve bought it and it exists just across state. However you still need to drive there to enjoy it. Same with manifesting anything. It all exists now, simply offset in the 4th or 5th dimension.
The feelings you have living in the end could be thought of as a compass, or GPS, guiding you to your desired destination.
I’m still learning this stuff too so open to any feedback!
Killing the Old Man
For all those who successfully managed to drop the old story and kill the old man.. how did you’ll do it ? How did you’ll decide that the past didn’t happen/ doesn’t exist etx ?
I persisted in the end. Period.
I know that may not sound helpful, but i would read post after post and lecture after lecture and still feel so hurt and in emotional pain over the history of my SP and I and finally one day I said “I have nothing to lose at this point I’m just going to pretend like we’re in the most beautiful relationship of our life and see him as the most precious human being and see me as the sweetest and most incredible human in the entire world and literally every moment live exactly from that scene.”
It took a few days (I’ve been on this journey for a year and have manifested being blocked, told things i don’t even want to get into per old story, like the worst circumstances you could imagine) and I had enough of feeling bad, so I literally embodied the woman who has it all right now. And in doing that you know what happened???
I literally lost the neediness and desperation. I know it sounds crazy but i literally began to live from the state of being so fulfilled that i forgot how it felt to feel so bad. It’s like I am repulsed now by feelings of shame and lack. I don’t need my SP anymore. I get to simply enjoy him for being a human and not on a pedestal that he would never live up to either in real life. I know my worth. And that’s made the difference in how he sees me and treats me now.
Don’t get me wrong I have cried, screamed, chased, begged, I spent six hours journaling, I read Neville, I affirmed only for SP, then i only Idid self concept, I listened to Kim Velez, paid for coaching, did tarot, did shamanic healings, did shadow work, read through every post on Reddit about manifesting and nothing seemed to work and i think one day I decided let me try this one last thing because I have nothing to lose and I kid you not within three days my entire reality shifted. I say all of that to say my entire journey led up to what now felt like a three day shift. All of that pain and hurt and anger and fear and regret and shame I was feeling…I chose to persist in it, never perfectly and I had so many days where I gave up and would get right back on the horse, but all of that hit a turning point where it took three days to see explosive movement.
Please know you are already on the other side. What already lives in you and the things you so deeply desire are already fulfilled in you. Get out of your own way. You truly are so powerful. Manifesting your SP with lots of old story with them can feel hard in the thick of it, but I promise – you have already done everything you need to do. Go to the end. Embody the delicious life you desire and the woman/man you envision having all you want right now and it literally opens doors nothing else has (for me).
Much love!
Wholesome Thoughts
One of the most important parts of this paper, and one of the most important things I’ve discovered is this: there is something that I believe you shouldn’t manifest – and that’s forcing a change in emotional state. For these built up negative emotions, the correct way to deal with them is accept them, acknowledge them, and be with them. Doing this will allow you to let go of them, to release them from your being. Every time you let go, your baseline “normal” emotional state gets a little higher. This is extremely important because the vast majority of our thoughts are caused by emotions. So, if you’re trying to work on your thoughts without working on your emotions first, you’re treating the symptoms and not the root cause. Reaching a higher emotional state will cause all those thousands and millions of automatically generated thoughts to become wholesome instead of unwholesome. And I’m sure you’re all aware just how much good that could do in your lives.