Self-conception was something I didn’t want to hear about. Why? Cause my victim mentality wanted to stay alive. I would read AIM’s posts and think “cool stuff but I’m going to listen to other people who have victim mindsets cause they know where I’m coming from” Lol.
The moment I accepted I had a victim mindset, I made myself aware I had the power to change it. And yes it was just that easy. I didn’t have to sit down listen to 30 hours of self-love meditations, I just had to acknowledge I have this, I no longer want it, then stay persisting new beliefs that challenged my victim mindset. I starved it to death.
Being aware of who I wanted to be (the me who has it all) claiming I am it right RIGHT NOW was everything I needed to do. It was that simple. The reason it took time was cause I didn’t want to let go of the old story even though I really wanted to. (I’m sure that makes sense lol)
The ego/old self trick that everyone commonly falls for is the trick of “waiting”. Waiting to feel better, waiting for people or circumstances to change, waiting for yourself to change… hello! It’s you! Who are you waiting on?
When it’s not feeling right it’s because you conjured up a state/feeling and you’re now pretending that this came to you from the outside and you have to wait for it to pass… waiting for a better day or better moment. This is a game you’re playing with yourself but it’s the cause of all of your dissatisfaction.
When dissatisfaction is there, when an uncomfortable feeling is there, when lack or frustration is there… FEEL it without judgement or resistance and remember that it is only there because YOU summoned it, there is no second power pushing it on you. You can change your mind and it can dissolve in an instant, but if not then Just watch it as if you are watching a snowflake in the sun. It will dissolve in seconds or minutes in most cases. And now what?
Now you just demonstrated to yourself that you don’t have to get stuck in waiting mode – you can actively dissolve afflictive emotion or states through non-resistance and remembering the truth. Likewise you can summon the exact states you want. It’s not difficult, a single word like “success” or “love” can do the trick if you enter into it feelingly.
Great success story to illustrate the immediacy of this path!
See these are the type of posts and comments that get to me man. “It’s so hard.” “I can’t do this.”
Have you learned nothing? The FUNDAMENTAL of Neville’s teachings was that your concept of yourself is what manifests.
“You never draw out of the deep of yourself that which you want; you always draw that which you are, and you are that which you feel yourself to be as well as that which you feel as true of others.”
– Feeling Is The Secret
And what are you doing? Half-assing SATS sessions and positive thoughts here and there? All while affirming on Reddit that you can’t do it? Doesn’t work like that my g, as Neville said, a slight change of mood here and there isn’t what gets you results, a complete transformation does.
“Armed with a working knowledge of this law, you can build and maintain an ideal world.”
– Feeling Is The Secret
Literally. Once you fully understand how to work the law you realize that your imagination is your best friend.
In order to see results you have to completely persuade yourself that you are that which you want to be. And that is the only way. Understand that your desires won’t be handed to you. You have to persist in persuading yourself that you are that which you want to be. I linked Neville’s book “Feeling Is the Secret.” Twice. Read it. It’s not a very long book. It’s everything you need to know. If you have been reading this subreddit more than you’ve read Neville’s work then prepare to be enlightened. 99% of the posts on here are complete trash, and I mean it. 99%. After reading Neville’s work you realize how people on here have twisted their interpretation of the law over the years. Aside from reading Neville, I’ll leave you with this post to read. The only post aside from a few others that’s worth reading on this subreddit. Apply it. Don’t half-ass it. You can do it.
I’ve given you everything you need. Keep your head up and persist. Read more Neville. You can find all his books and lectures online for free. Your imagination is your best friend. And I just want to remind you, the only thing that can stop you is yourself.
I’m writing for you and myself
see the problem, understand = it came from you, even if it was later manifested in existence, to show you what thought you had (of yourself, of other, of people in general).
See the message (it came from you/ you reacting = you being an actor, bad move if script is shit) and think; are they to blame, or am i to blame for them doing/showing me what i was thinking (good or bad).
If yes – it came from me = then there is no problem, it’s just an idea/manifested irl reflection clothed in substance.
If it’s just an idea and it came to life as an ‘irl-experience’ – like if i now think of getting a free cup of coffee – i will get it/it will be reflected as situation because i’m gonna see a cup of coffee that i didn’t pay for (something will happen) in my imagination, and if selected – i feel reliefs, that’s when I give the Green light = for it to manifest.
Reliefs is the symptom of a good thought.
Anxiety/nervousness/depression/anger/any negative thought = is a symptom of a bad thought/or memory(still a thought but in irl video format).
That’s good to hear, that means = There absolutely never is a problem.
as everything is only an idea and you bring it about by your thinking/imagining XYZ,
So there is no reason to react to anything negative – Only see it, see what’s happening/happened, understand that “yes, at some point i was thinking this and now i see it irl” – and surplant/replace it with a better alternative.
You don’t even have to believe so much as FEEL. Live in the end. Ignore the voice of doubt. You don’t believe it’s possible because you (nor I, nor anyone else) can begin to imagine how the universe will bend or stretch or break to give you what’s already yours.