Write a New Story

Neville Goddard thread:

For reference by this point, we had not spoken or been in contact for 6 months and he had literally told me to never contact him again. So, this is what I did:

I decided to take every negative thought about him, our relationship, and the argument we had, and bin it. From this point onwards I would never repeat the old story again, like it had never happened. Revise it if you have too. That’s what I did, I revised the evening we had the argument, into a lovely romantic date and things were left in a good way, with my SP telling me he loved me and will see me soon.

I also took my SP off the pedestal, he’s just a normal person, this is my life, I am the GOD of my reality. So, in my head I decided on a new story in which I was the most important person, and my SP was head over heels in love with me.

I wrote down a list of affirmations about me, how I was confident, attractive, I can get any man I want, and I deserve this amazing relationship. About him, how I wanted to recreate him in my reality, loving, caring, attentive and only attracted to me. Then about the relationship, we are so in love and in a happy committed relationship. I kept the affirmations short and easy to remember, so I could repeat them whenever I needed too.

A strict mental diet is what worked for me, I hardly ever visualised, but when I repeated my affirmations, images of us walking down the street hand in hand would pop into my mind naturally, but if they didn’t that was ok, I didn’t force anything. Every time a negative thought came to my mind, I said NO and repeated my affirmations, until I felt a swift into a positive place. I did this continuously until the negative thoughts were completely gone. It didn’t take long. Another thing, I added to my routine was, I would repeat my affirmations to myself every night until I fell asleep.

During this time, I must stress you have to ignore your current reality and what’s happening in the 3D world. Completely live like you’re in this amazing relationship with your SP. The affirmations will make it easier to stay in that place. Don’t react to anything that is opposing your desire, and don’t wait around for calls or messages. I would just look at my phone and say why is he always calling and messaging me. Enjoy life and do things that you’d do if you already had this person in your life. Would you be googling how to get my ex back etc if you had them NO, so stop doing that. You know how to manifest, so go ahead and practice it. You can’t learn forever and there are no short cuts to this, you have to put in the work and test the law for yourself. Even Neville Goddard stressed the importance of testing the law and see it work for yourself.

The final and most important thing is PERSIST in the new story, do not give up. Don’t look for signs or feel like you have to contact them. Keep affirming until this new story feels more real than the old. Before you know it, the 3D world will catch up with your imagination. When you least expect it, your SP will be back with you. They have no choice but to conform to your assumptions of them, because everyone is you pushed out. If you believe they love you, miss you and only want you, they have to appear that way in your reality. Remember there is no one to change but self – Neville Goddard. You can’t change your SP in the 3D world without changing them in your thoughts and imagination first, change the old story you’re telling yourself about them. All you must do is dedicate the time and effort to control your mind.

This may sound harsh, but you have to be brutally honest with yourself. Some people say they are on a strict mental diet but are only positive when they’re affirming and then allow their mind to run wild rest of the time. When you’re on a strict mental diet, you should take control of every thought 24/7. It will get easier the more you do it.

As for my SP he contacted me 3 weeks into my mental diet, apologising and telling me how he’d missed me and wanted to see me. We’re now in a loving committed relationship, he is the best partner ever because I have created him that way. Everything I had been affirming to myself came true. Even now when he does things that annoy me, I don’t argue with him, I just change it in my mind. Once you adjust your mindset, your whole world will change.

The way I look at it is, it’s your life you write the script. Your SP is only an extra in your film, you’re the lead, so you call the shots. You can have this too, just believe in yourself and your relationship and take control of your mind. Best of luck everyone.

All Is Imagination

Neville Goddard:

My experience revealed to me that I am supreme within the circle of my own state of consciousness and that it is the state with which I am identified that determines what I experience. Therefore it should be shared with all, that imagining creates reality, for to know this is to become free from the world’s greatest tyranny, the belief in a second cause. Blessed are they whose imagination has been so purged of the beliefs in second causes they know that imagination is all, and all is imagination. We, by a series of mental transformations, become aware of increasing portions of that which already is, and by matching our own mental activity to that portion of creation which we desire to experience, we activate it, resurrect it, and give it life.

To Be Magnetic

Lacy Phillips:

In my practice, I study my most magnetic clients. We’re talking about the person who’ll say “I have this company, and wouldn’t it be cool if Vogue wrote about it?” And then Vogue emails that night. They’re so magnetic, and everything they want comes to them.

The most major commonality lucky people share is that they’re incredibly vulnerable and honest. It’s a kind of humble, authentic honesty. They are fully in their authenticity, meaning they’re not hiding. Nothing’s owning them.

Lucky people don’t do the ego dance, which is when we go out into public or we’re around somebody new and low self-worth leads us to question: “Who should I be? Will they love me? What do I say for them to love?” Magnetic people don’t do that. They share a dissociation from that ego dance and they’re just presently, authentically, vulnerably themselves.

There is also the very rare unicorn who grew up in an environment where they were incredibly loved, believed in; there wasn’t any shame. Things come to them because they are whole.


What we don’t own owns us. Anywhere we have shadows still, where we are judging or projecting, it’s just where we’re wanting to be loved.


A huge component of what creates that force, that pull, magnetism, if you will, is self-worth. Anytime I would step into my power, and no longer settle for things where I had been really small or insecure in the past, and say no—and claim my power—what I wanted would connect with me. Thinking positive had nothing to do with it; it was standing in my power and strength and worth and not settling for less that mattered.


1. START SAYING NO. This applies to anything that’s not a “hell yes” in your life. Anytime you’re people-pleasing or doing something because you think you should be, or settling, what you’re communicating energetically and projecting is: “I’m not worth doing what I want” or “I don’t feel valuable enough to do what I want, therefore I’m going to keep staying small.” Whenever you’re in that mode, you’re just going to keep attracting the same lessons over and over and over again. Create boundaries and say no to what’s not a yes. That’s the number one thing somebody can do right away.

2. TAKE UP MORE SPACE. Look at anywhere in your life where you’re being small right now. Where you know you desire more and you’re worth more inside. Maybe you’re still in the job you hate. You’re still dating that person who treats you like shit or you’re still going out with the emotionally unavailable person. Wherever you’re small, you’re not able to create; it’s a block in your life. There’s no magnetism. To feed your magnetism, start accepting only what makes you feel big and true to who you are.


What we don’t own owns us. Anywhere we have shadows still, where we are judging or projecting, it’s just where we’re wanting to be loved. The moment we integrate that and take our power back, anything that was making us feel insecure no longer exists. We’re in our worthy selves, and we can attract the thing that we’re wanting.

Go Into God Mode & Live the Dream There

Self Concept. I’m realizing more and more that it’s all about self concept. How you view yourself is what shapes your reality. So imagine being this version of yourself that you want to be. Feel yourself as this version. Act it out in your imagination. Who are you? Who do you wish to be. Live in that mindset of the self you desire to be. Don’t fight who you are. It’s like boxing with shadows. Just choose to be who you want to be in the imagination and leave 3D alone. 3D is all shadows of the past and so often we choose to chase them, box with them, be frightened of them. I catch myself doing it and it’s insane. Instead, go into godmode, into imagination and live the dream there. Then the shadows in 3D change to that.

I’ve remade myself more times than I can count and it always was in my imagination where I began to see myself differently first. Then it became the 3D shadow. And your goal is how I live now and I have lived that way generally quite content/happy about it but I used to want a guy in my life so much. I used to feel lonely. I used to dread the idea of being alone. And like you at times I would be with someone and be like OMG so much stress!

Lately I’m playing around with a guy in my imagination again for fun. I’m having a wonderful relationship and loving it. I think I just felt like I did the single thing for so long that a change became desirable when someone caught my attention after years of that never happening. I took it as a sign that maybe this meant I’m feeling more open again to such a thing whereas for many, many years I was not interested in it at all.

But it is all about self concept. Who are you in your imagination? Who are you in your thoughts? I have seen myself in some very negative ways in the past and those came to be my 3D shadows. Over time I came to see myself better and better, tweaking some traits, adding others. Creating some new truths while letting old ones fade away. You get to be whomever you want! It’s your imagination. Make it a good one that you enjoy and so shall you become that in your 3D shadowland.

Steve Martin – Preparation

The Hollywood Reporter’s profile on Steve Martin:

In person, Martin appears tailored for five-star hotels. If he got the memo about suits not surviving the pandemic, he’s chosen to ignore it. He’s arrived early, in a crisp navy blue number, and offers a salutatory fist-bump, explaining that he’d been trying to liberate himself from handshakes for years. Taking a seat in a leather armchair and swinging his left leg across the right, he is sedate compared to the frenetic banana he’s been on so many stages and countless screens. But he isn’t stingy with punchlines, either. Martin seems keenly aware of what’s expected of him.

“One time Steve was visiting at Saturday Night Live, and I had seen him do [David] Letterman the night before,” says Tina Fey, who has forged a friendship with him over many projects — most recently as his true-crime podcasting foil on Only Murders. “I said, ‘You were so funny on Letterman last night.’ And he very matter-of-factly said, ‘Well, you have to kill every time.’ It was chilling to me, but it’s true. Comedy people can’t go on talk shows and blather like actors. We’re supposed to deliver. Steve always delivers.”

Delivering does not just happen, even for Martin. “He phoned me up once and said, ‘Do you have a minute to hear some jokes? I’m doing Jimmy Kimmel in two months,’ ” says Short. ” ‘And you’re already working on it?!‘ That’s why he’s Steve Martin. That’s why he’s still Steve Martin.” (Michaels, too, has gotten those calls and is quick to clarify: “Most people I know prepare on the drive to the show.”)

Martin takes an almost scientific approach to developing his material. The blueprint for this can be found in Born Standing Up, the 2007 memoir of his stand-up years — “I don’t know a comic who hasn’t read that book,” says Amy Schumer. “He’s in the comedy DNA of me and everyone I know” — in which he recounts the often surrealist routine he honed over the course of the 1970s.

Sharing Your Work / Subtle Attacks

Lisa Tener on what to do when someone tries to take the wind out of your sails:

In terms of the writing–he’s not your target audience. I would be very careful of not giving the book to someone who is not your target audience right now. I would focus on getting feedback from people who are your target audience–probably mostly women. And people you trust to be kind, who will offer helpful, specific feedback.


One of the lessons here is to be careful who you share your work with. Once someone has proven untrustworthy (i.e. it’s not like he gave you some great feedback that was very specific and helped you improve the book the first time he looked at it), do not trust them with an additional read. Lesson learned.

It sounds like his was also an energetic attack, meant to undermine your creative energy, confidence and success. So, maybe spend some time in nature, do whatever you need to connect to your life-force and rejuvenate your spirit. Envision yourself taking back any life-force energy he may have “taken” with his attack. Don’t dwell on it, though. Reconnect with your strength and from that place, ask what’s next. It may be very helpful to work with a coach or a healer to clear the trauma of this and un-create whatever beliefs about yourself that fed into this attack.

My sense is that when someone has a passion as you do, it’s no accident. You are meant to write this book and all the support you need to make it compelling is available to you as you remain steadfast.

Turn Your Attention Away / Switch the Channel


“Just as a branch has no life except it be rooted in the vine, so likewise things have no life except you be conscious of them. Just as a branch withers and dies if the sap of the vine ceases to flow towards it, so do things in your world pass away if you take your attention from them, because your attention is as the sap of life that keeps alive and sustains the things of your world.”

“To dissolve a problem that now seems so real to you all that you do is remove your attention from it”

“If you are dissatisfied with your present expression in life the only way to change it, is to take your attention away form that which seems so real to you and rise in consciousness to that which you desire to be.”

Here are some of the quotes from Neville’s book, At Your Command.

In his books, Neville talks about dropping the problem from the awareness in order to get rid of it. But what does he mean by that?

I understand that he means shift your attention from the problem to the wish fulfilled but how do you completely drop the stress/worry of it from your mind?

For eg, if person A needs money but they don’t have a job yet, while they’re pretending to be rich and live in the wish fulfilled, how do they stop worrying about the lack of money/job completely?

Another example – if person B wants to get rid of a 3p, how do they completely drop the 3P from the awareness or stop giving them attention? Do they stop acknowledging the 3P or do they pretend as though the 3P doesn’t exist?

Reply 1:

1 ) Acknowledge that you are the creator of your reality. You can only drop what you hold. You can only allow what you believe to be possible. State your desires.

2) Rest in knowing, that life itself is now tending to it. Cope with life. Visit friends.

3 ) Find appreciation in where you are and what you do. There will always be a 3d that you want to be changed and there will always be some kind of resistance in life. That is okay. By adding appreciation, or any other kind of awareness that is uplifting ( acceptance), you dilute the strong unwanted. Being okay with where you are is your job.

Put your mind off. Literally. Put it off. Let it rest somewhere in the corner while you take a good shower. Eat a nice meal and hang out with friends. You are not your mind. Practice staying with ease in life. Stop watching news, stop watching the cash in your bank account.

Find playful ways of spending 15 minutes a day in refocusing your energies. This again does not mean you should expect everything to flip at once, nor would that be a fun ride. Watch it gradually unfold. If you feel not good its okay. accept that too. feelings of joy will gradually unfold. it will become more . Here and there, sparks of the focused energy will squirt out in 3d way before the full fledged manifestation. Feel the anticipation.

Now, go back to step 1) and rehearse each step as you go along in life. Watch what happens. Best stick with one Goal though, as you make yourself accountable and its easier to manifest that way. you see success easier.

Reply 2:

Let’s bring things down a dimension. Your vacation home is all yours. You’ve bought it and it exists just across state. However you still need to drive there to enjoy it. Same with manifesting anything. It all exists now, simply offset in the 4th or 5th dimension.

The feelings you have living in the end could be thought of as a compass, or GPS, guiding you to your desired destination.

I’m still learning this stuff too so open to any feedback!

Killing the Old Man

Neville Goddard thread:

For all those who successfully managed to drop the old story and kill the old man.. how did you’ll do it ? How did you’ll decide that the past didn’t happen/ doesn’t exist etx ?

I persisted in the end. Period.

I know that may not sound helpful, but i would read post after post and lecture after lecture and still feel so hurt and in emotional pain over the history of my SP and I and finally one day I said “I have nothing to lose at this point I’m just going to pretend like we’re in the most beautiful relationship of our life and see him as the most precious human being and see me as the sweetest and most incredible human in the entire world and literally every moment live exactly from that scene.”

It took a few days (I’ve been on this journey for a year and have manifested being blocked, told things i don’t even want to get into per old story, like the worst circumstances you could imagine) and I had enough of feeling bad, so I literally embodied the woman who has it all right now. And in doing that you know what happened???

I literally lost the neediness and desperation. I know it sounds crazy but i literally began to live from the state of being so fulfilled that i forgot how it felt to feel so bad. It’s like I am repulsed now by feelings of shame and lack. I don’t need my SP anymore. I get to simply enjoy him for being a human and not on a pedestal that he would never live up to either in real life. I know my worth. And that’s made the difference in how he sees me and treats me now.

Don’t get me wrong I have cried, screamed, chased, begged, I spent six hours journaling, I read Neville, I affirmed only for SP, then i only Idid self concept, I listened to Kim Velez, paid for coaching, did tarot, did shamanic healings, did shadow work, read through every post on Reddit about manifesting and nothing seemed to work and i think one day I decided let me try this one last thing because I have nothing to lose and I kid you not within three days my entire reality shifted. I say all of that to say my entire journey led up to what now felt like a three day shift. All of that pain and hurt and anger and fear and regret and shame I was feeling…I chose to persist in it, never perfectly and I had so many days where I gave up and would get right back on the horse, but all of that hit a turning point where it took three days to see explosive movement.

Please know you are already on the other side. What already lives in you and the things you so deeply desire are already fulfilled in you. Get out of your own way. You truly are so powerful. Manifesting your SP with lots of old story with them can feel hard in the thick of it, but I promise – you have already done everything you need to do. Go to the end. Embody the delicious life you desire and the woman/man you envision having all you want right now and it literally opens doors nothing else has (for me).

Much love!

Wholesome Thoughts


One of the most important parts of this paper, and one of the most important things I’ve discovered is this: there is something that I believe you shouldn’t manifest – and that’s forcing a change in emotional state. For these built up negative emotions, the correct way to deal with them is accept them, acknowledge them, and be with them. Doing this will allow you to let go of them, to release them from your being. Every time you let go, your baseline “normal” emotional state gets a little higher. This is extremely important because the vast majority of our thoughts are caused by emotions. So, if you’re trying to work on your thoughts without working on your emotions first, you’re treating the symptoms and not the root cause. Reaching a higher emotional state will cause all those thousands and millions of automatically generated thoughts to become wholesome instead of unwholesome. And I’m sure you’re all aware just how much good that could do in your lives.