Neville Goddess Advice

Neville Goddess:

Your world is a perfect reflection of you, and that includes your desires. Your desires reflect you. When you improve your lens, you see your desires differently, and they often change. The beauty of it all is you are free to move at your own pace and make your own choices. Your world and your life will continue to reflect back to you the contents of your mind – perfectly. If you operate from that assumption, anything “wrong” in your world isn’t from random chance. It’s there reflecting a belief you hold.

The way I approached this year was to just try to change all my beliefs into what I wanted them to be. There were surprising, seemingly unrelated outer effects from specific mental changes that I’d never made connections between that made me a 100% knower (not believer) in this concept of your world as a reflection. When I changed my belief that I was an object subject to others’ approval, a romantic interest in my life who had been noncommittal suddenly wanted to commit. I had no conscious awareness that that belief was causing that outer issue. But it was, through ME. My energy, my words, my choices, my actions.

I also caught a belief that was just below the surface – that no good partners were left out there for me to find (even though on a creation level, I had already said “it’s done.”) When I caught that belief and reprogrammed it – by simply realizing rationally that it’s not true which is my way, and may not be yours – the person I was looking for appeared the next day. And had been there for some time, invisible to me in the right way until my belief changed.

And:

I started with assuming that every belief I had was meaningless/false and everything else came from that. If I create my experience, and I do that through my beliefs, and I don’t want a painful experience, then everything painful I’m experiencing comes from a belief I’m holding that is false/changeable. Something like that, haha.

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Step #1: Write a life vision for yourself

How do you envision your life a few weeks, months, or years from now?

Spend a whole day (or week) thinking about this.

Don’t say I don’t know what to do with my life.

Are you telling me you have no clue what you want in any of the following areas: study, work, family, friends, hobbies, health, etc.?

Even if you’re not sure, you need to give your life some direction.

This is by far the most important part of recovering from pornography addiction.

Write like crazy. Write many pages if you want. Make the biggest post you’ve ever done in your journal talking about how you envision your future life.

This life vision will be the foundation of your reboot.

This is what you will focus on 100% from now on.

Close your eyes. Visualize it. Write it down.

Step #2: Give urgency to your life vision

So this is what you’re going to do now:

You’re going to give urgency to your life vision.

Write down why you ABSOLUTELY MUST start working on it right now.

Make another huge post or journal entry about it.

Step #3: Develop an indestructible belief in yourself

One of the main reasons we quit goals is because deep inside we don’t believe we’re actually able to do it.

When successful people like Arnold Schwarzenegger decide they want to achieve something, they become completely obsessed about it. They have an indestructible belief that they will achieve it.

They are not affected by circumstances. They create results in their head before they even get them.

This is what you have to do if you want to accomplish anything.